Ka Wai Ola - Office of Hawaiian Affairs, Volume 25, Number 8, 1 August 2008 — Traditional behaviors and kūpuna [ARTICLE+ILLUSTRATION]

Traditional behaviors and kūpuna

Early Hawaiians were often eharaeterized as gentle, graeious, generous and polite. And that is beeause ehiefs and commoners alike were taught the traditional values of humility, kindness and generosity. Kūpuna taught ehildren of all social strata the courtesies and behaviors required with their elders, particularly, with their chiefs. Good breeding was demonstrated by acting and speaking with courtesy and walking and sitting with dignity. By the mid-1800s, Hawaiian historian Kepelino lamented, "But, today these good teachings are being lost and the arrogant ways of the Americans are eonimon

here." Courtesies expected for ali'i were strictly enforced. The punishment for misbehavior was severe and immediate. Whenever a chief traveled among the people, an announcer preceded the chief and his many attendants to eall out the chief's kapu. The announcer would eall out, "Kapu! Lie down!" īmmediate eomplianee was expected of everyone, including children. And, the position was to be held until all of the chief 's entourage had passed. The executioner was the last person in the procession, and he would loudly eall out infractions and indicate the punishment was death. īf the chief wanted to spare the life of the offending person, he would eall out instructions to allow the person to live. Sometimes, in order to save the offender, a chief would plaee his hand on the

person and ask the executioner to release him. īt was the chief's humility, kindness and generosity that staid the executioner's hand. One ean appreciate why such great care was taken in teaching and learning appropriate behavior. īnterestingly, Kepelino saw the traditionally taught courtesies and behaviors were being lost and replaced, 150 years ago. Admittedly, today courtesy is no longer a demonstrated norm. And sadly, speaking with respect for elders has also waned. Walking and sitting with the dignity of a traditional chief is no longer practiced by our youth today. Traditionally, kūpuna held an enviable position in the Hawaiian family. Kūpuna were considered wise and aeeoniplished. Kūpuna were the eonstant, steadying and positive inHuenee for both makua and

mo'opuna. Kūpuna observed and continued to gently guide their own ehikhen as they settled into the role of family providers. Kūpuna also focused on teaching mo'opuna the family history, values, behaviors and courtesies taught to them by their kūpuna. The 21 st century has brought more challenges and changes to the Hawaiian family system and many are not desirable. Facts show we have fewer kūpuna in our lāhui today. Native Hawaiians over 50 years of age make up fewer than 15 percent (13 percent or 47,869) of the nearly 400,000 adults in Hawai'i who are 50 or older. That is fewer than is found in other ethnic groups in Hawai'i. Recent surveys of Native Hawaiian adults over 50 years of age show about a third (34 percent) of Hawaiian elderly feel relatively positive about their lives, while nearly a fourth (24 percent) of this group feel

they are in fair or poor heahh. Health challenges for the older Hawaiian adult include severe overweight, diabetes, asthma, hypertension and physical disabilities that keep them at home. Many of our kūpuna live in rural areas, either alone or with their families, where a laek of public transportation makes it difficult to take care of daily tasks, like getting to medical appointments, pharmacies and the grocery store. And, many senior programs are available only within the city limits. The survey identified some urgent needs of our kūpuna such as, finding housing, caring for and repairing their homes, needing companionship, and help with shopping, cleaning and meals. Kūpuna living in rural areas face the greatest challenge. Let us give voice to the needs of our kūpuna and seek solutions for them. Our kūpuna need help and our lāhui needs the wisdom of kūpuna. I

OLAKINO ■ Y0UR HEALĪH —

By Claire Ku'uleilani Hughes, Dr. PH„ R.D.